Wake up in the morning and use your time to create. Close your eyes and visualize what you want to happen. Feel the emotions of what it's like to be there. Your happiness is your own - cars, money, travel, health, relationship, knowledge, house, pets, etc. whatever it is spend you first moments of the day pondering it and walking around in it. What are the sounds and smells? What does it feel like to run your hand along the surfaces? Create detail and feel posivitice emotion about. Open your eyes and go about making it happen. Choose your adventure. You are a creator. You are not subject to what comes your way. You are in charge. Make it a good one.